My Blog Has Moved

Hello all I would like to thank all those who have subscribed to my blog and have been following me along my journey for the past 3 years or even recently. I am here to announce that my blog and all of my posts have now moved to http://www.thoughtsofchi.com I will no longer be posting…

Me, Myself and my Hair

I can't help but share my views on this topic in a detailed post without being confined to a 280 character thread limit on Twitter. Basically, I have been seeing a vast variety of opinions about black women who wear wigs and weaves and there are a few things I want clarify from my perspective as…

My 2017

First of all I would like to thank God for allowing me to see the end to another year and bringing me through the year safely! Now this year of 2017 has been very interesting to say the least. Again, I have learnt some humbling yet much-needed life lessons in regards to different areas of…

Dear Younger Self

I look back and assess the woman I am today after the ups and downs I have faced. As weird as this next notion will sound, sometimes I want to go back and have a heart to heart with my younger self and impart the knowledge I have learnt over the years from my experiences.…

Trusting The Process

"I don't understand" "I don't have it all together" it's been a while since my last post but here goes nothing. There have been times during my walk with God that I feel like I am at a stand still. Like things are not working out the way I would have hoped and frustration begins…

Me + Distractions = Detours

The message for this post was dropped in my heart months ago BUT after a lot of distractions with my personal life  I was putting off writing this post because due to my choices I felt my heart and mind were not in a state to even type this message. What I have learnt is…

Me + Sex = Shenanigans

Who have I been kidding? Since my last blog post the battle with sexual purity has been wild! I've even fallen down on a few occasions to the point where I am now in the same mind state I was at 2 years ago. I feel like I have gone so far I will be…

Slip Ups 101: Lust

"Basically, until I have said “I do” and my wedding ceremony has ended listen my legs are closed and unavailable. Lord, may I be strong in my decision to stay celibate until marriage I know my reasons for wanting to do this!" ~ From my Struggles of a Young Christian Woman Part 2: Sex blog…

My Struggles As a Young Christian Woman Part 2: Sex

So as a follow on from my previous post from last week it’s about time I share my honest opinion about sex. Yes I am going there today I got time. It’s one of those things that young Christians including myself try to brush under the carpet when in actual fact needs to be discussed.…

My Struggles As A Young Christian Woman Part 1: Relationships

I have been delaying this post and topic for a while but I think it’s time for me to share some of the things that have been crossing my mind lately about relationships and sex. Yes, we are going there! I will keep it real this area of my life has been a struggle and…